Transitional & Transformative Relationship Therapy
You built this relationship. You can rebuild it.
Relationship therapy that helps you imagine possibilities outside of the common scripts - keeping the best parts of your relationship and creating a plan to transition to something better.
Something in your relationship isn’t working:
You don’t want to lose this person but you can’t see a way forward if your relationship stays the same. You know you love and care about your partner, but the way your relationship has become established isn’t working for either of you.
One or both of you have changed, and you need something different from your relationship than you used to. Because of identity shifts, life events, or other relationships - the current shape isn’t supporting your mutual growth and happiness.
You always said you could shift your relationship if you needed to, but you don’t know where to start. Shared homes, shared finances, established routines, and years of history can make even a relationship that wants to evolve feel stuck.
You don’t want to follow the same break-up patterns you’ve always seen all around you. Your values aren’t aligned with cutting people out of your life, and you don’t want to lose all of what you may share together.
This is the space where we:
Name what isn't working - clearly, specifically, and without judgment. Figure out where changes are needed and why.
Envision what might work better - for everyone involved. Come up with possibilities that fit the realities of your everyday life.
Grieve what's ending - even changes you want and are choosing still involve loss. We create space for this grief in a way that leads to more connection, not less.
Build a concrete plan - break down an overwhelming transition into manageable steps. Together we’ll approach your situation with curiosity and candor to come up with an intentional path forward.
Who This Is For:
People in non-monogamous relationship structures who want flexibility and the ability to shape a relationship around what actually works for those involved
Monogamous couples ready to break from the common script and part ways differently
If any of this sounds familiar, let’s talk.